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The things I notice

50 reasons I appreciate you

You bring so much warmth, loyalty and joy into my life. These are only 50 of the reasons I appreciate you, because I could keep going forever.

A chipmunk and a penguin sharing a sweet kiss

Every little thing matters

  1. Your kind heart.
  2. The patience you show me.
  3. Your honesty, even when a truth is difficult.
  4. Your loyalty.
  5. The reassurance you give me.
  6. The way you check in on me.
  7. How you remember the little details.
  8. The time you make for us.
  9. The way you listen.
  10. How you encourage me.
  11. The way you believe in me.
  12. How easily you make me laugh.
  13. Your beautiful smile.
  14. The comfort of your voice.
  15. Your hugs that make everything feel lighter.
  16. The safe feeling I have with you.
  17. Your gentle honesty.
  18. Your forgiving heart.
  19. Your ambition.
  20. Your resilience when life is hard.
  21. The way you give love openly.
  22. How you understand my moods.
  23. How you celebrate my wins.
  24. How you stay present on difficult days.
  25. The effort you put into us.
  26. Your thoughtful messages.
  27. The way you remember what matters to me.
  28. Your courage to speak up for yourself.
  29. The healthy boundaries you protect.
  30. The respect you show our relationship.
  31. The way you do not entertain people who disrespect what we have.
  32. The trust you give me.
  33. How you make ordinary days feel special.
  34. Your playful side.
  35. Your serious advice when I need it.
  36. The kindness you show other people.
  37. The care you have for the people you love.
  38. The dreams you carry.
  39. Your curiosity about the world.
  40. Your creativity.
  41. Your confidence.
  42. Your softness.
  43. The way you are so perfectly yourself.
  44. How you make me want to become better.
  45. The way you love me through the small moments.
  46. Your beautiful mind.
  47. Your funny little habits.
  48. How proud you make me.
  49. Every memory we have made.
  50. You, simply.

I appreciate the whole of you: your strength, your softness, your laughter, your honesty and all the little things that make you Abi. I hope I show you that more often.